Friday, September 8, 2017

Willing to Fall

"I was always happy I tried."


            CIA analyst Mike May liked being a "human guided missile." That's why he won the world record for downhill speed skiing. As a boy, he climbed a 175-foot tall radio tower with no safety gear. Then his mother let him build an 80-foot antenna in the backyard.
            After college, Hay lived in a remote village in Ghana for six months working as a laborer hauling buckets of dirt. He invented a portable GPS system when the technology was new, and he helped invent the world's first laser turntable. He also starred in a play for six weeks.
            When he was in elementary school, he was a safety crossing guard. He rode a bicycle for three miles. He played baseball, tetherball, and kickball, and he rode a pogo-stick and had a skateboard.
            Such things are not so unusual. May, however, had been blind since he was three. He wanted to make mud pies in his parents' garage. He needed a jar, and he found one filled with a hardened powder. It was calcium carbide. When he washed it out, the water and the powder combined, creating an explosive gas—acetylene. Chemical burns horribly scarred his corneas, the transparent part of the eyes in front of the iris and pupils.

A Chance at Bat

            Growing up, he let nothing stop him. When he played baseball, he might run into a tree instead of first base, but he didn't care. He wanted his chance at bat. The play he starred in was "Butterflies Are Free," the story of a blind man trying to leave home. He commanded the stage with such abandon some in the audience feared he might topple into the orchestra pit.
            "Sometimes I got bloody," May told Robert Kurson, the author of the book "Crashing Through" which tells his life story. "Sometimes I ended up on big adventures. But no matter what happened, I was always happy I tried….
             May didn't want to sit around his whole life wondering what might have happened if he tried something. He tried it. Even when he lost his left eye to infection as a young man, he kept going forward into the unknown and new adventures.
            One day when he was 45, he began his greatest adventure. On a lark, he sat in an optometrist's chair. "I think you're going to find that I'm blind," May told the doctor.
            The optometrist couldn't argue with that, and he asked May if he would like to see his partner, Dan Goodman, an ophthalmologist. After examining May's eye, Goodman said, "I think we can make you see."
            And that is what Dr. Goodman did—he let May see again. He performed an experimental corneal epithelial stem cell transplant. The surgery grafted a ring of cells one-third of a millimeter thick around the perimeter of the cornea. After growing securely into place, they birthed new cells. A second operation then attached a transplanted cornea to the healthy outer ring.


            May had many good reasons not to have the operations. The procedure had a 50 percent failure rate. His new vision, if any, might not last. Worse, he would be taking a dangerous anti-transplant rejection drug that could cause liver failure, kidney failure, and cancer.
            May also wondered—did he really need vision to see? He knew he was married to a beautiful woman. He knew he had two beautiful sons. He always "saw" them perfectly well. In the final analysis, however, in May's mind—as always—"Curiosity outweigh[ed] a mountain of reasons not to do it."

The Pain Was Shattering

            When the bandages came off, the first face he saw was that of his wife. He saw her blond hair, her blue sweater, her face, her lips, and later he saw all of her, and when they made love, he looked into her eyes.
            He saw his 80-year-old mother for the first time in 42 years. When he noticed—for the first time—that one of his sons had freckles, his wife cried.
            At first, he could only see things one at a time as though he were looking at photographs. His vision quickly improved, allowing him to play catch with his other son.
            But as with other patients who have regained vision, he suffered from prosopagnosia, difficulty interpreting the world visually. He would never be able to drive or read. The portions of his brain that processed such visual activity never developed during his childhood.
            When his body tried to reject the transplant, May endured a series of horrifically painful injections directly into the cornea. Putting medicine inside the eye was the only way to save it. Each time, he could see the gleaming needle coming at his eye, and each time the pain was shattering.
            May's spirit wouldn't allow his body to give in to possibility of failure. The treatment worked, and his body's attempt to reject the transplant ended.
            When he was a teenager, he worked as a camp counselor. Of course, the younger boys asked him for life advice. Fittingly, he replied, "Have adventures. Speak to your curiosity. Be willing to fall down or to get lost. There's always a way."

MORAL: See what you can do!


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